Tag Archives: Age

Forgetting to Remember

9 Mar

There is something weird happening to the way we remember things. And the way we forget them.

In a digitally-driven world, almost everything we upload/share/email/blog post…whatever, is cached somewhere without any expiry date and floats around in ghostly cyber-space waiting to be touched again by a human being. Unlike the history of earlier times – captured through folklore, twisted by kings and triumphant tribes or exiled forever when a storyteller died – it’s almost as though we’re all in a mad hurry to record every stupidly trivial detail of our lives via 140 characters or silly status updates.

And then we live in fear, having forgotten what we said, where and when. But knowing full well that Google knows it all and will make your spur-of-the-moment slur available on demand for a potential employer or, worse, a suitor. Which is where a tool (drop.io) allowed you to put an expiry date on everything you shared in the cloud. It would have had immense value except that its owners went in for valuation and sold out to Facebook. Mover over Google, Facebook doesn’t want you to remember and retract.

But that’s not the weirdness I alluded to, above.

My worry is that we are now a generation of people (digital migrants and natives alike) who simply cannot remember many things that some of us did in the pre-mobile, pre-Google era… like birthdays and phone numbers. Wasn’t there a time when you could recall every phone number you frequently dialled straight off the top of your mind? How many can you remember today? Two, three, four perhaps and they’ll probably be of people you love. There may be the odd phone number or postal address from a decade ago that’s indelibly etched; but not too many, I’ll wager. Is it because we no longer actually dial (or punch in) a number? Or is it because we’ve handed over the responsibility of remembering to ever-growing memory chips that sit inside our mobile and computer hardware? Will we need an app soon to tell us who we’re fond of?

I have a crazy time remembering things I’d like to forget about. It’s worse if you forget the things you should remember.

Update (March 10): Even NYT agrees with me in a funny way 😉

Second Law of Middle Age

6 Dec

Mohitoz’ Law #168

When women enter middle age, it gives men a pause.

Law of Teenagers

11 Oct

Mohitoz’ Law #107
(Inspired by: Blossom)

Parents need to grow up.

Second Law of Balding Men

9 Oct

Mohitoz’ Law #104

Hair today, gone tomorrow.

Law of Oncologists

22 Sep

Mohitoz’ Law #83

Cancer will have an answer.

Law of Amnesia

18 Sep

Mohitoz’ Law #79

Er…can’t remember this one. Sorry 😦

Last Law of Life

17 Sep

Mohitoz’ Law #76

Death has no cure.

Law of Nostalgia

1 Sep

Mohitoz’ Law # 56

Just because time travels in one direction, it doesn’t mean that the mind will not meander.

First Law of Balding Men

28 Aug

Mohitoz’ Law #52

Toupee or not toupee…

First Law of Middle Age

27 Aug

Mohitoz’ Law #50

After 40, men will get naughty.

Law of Birthday Cakes

25 Jul

Mohitoz’ Law #16

The number of candles on a birthday cake is inversely proportional to the size of the cake.

Young India?

31 Jan

Nearly 40% of India’s population is below 15 years of age.

The average age of India’s politicians, however, is 53.

And we’re expecting the country to remain youthful and progressive?